Rarely does a Sunday pass by that I am not asked a question about a parishioner that has had or is still experiencing medical problems, often including hospitalization.  The question about someone’s condition may be the first time I have had an indication that the person was ill or had a surgical procedure.  Also, it is the norm that when I contact the individual, they wonder why I didn’t visit as they are under the assumption that when clergy visit hospitals, they can check at the desk and see the hospital “census” to see if anyone they know is there.

Those days are gone due to federal privacy laws. Even if you put on your hospital form that you would like for me to visit you, I am not notified by the hospital of your request, nor is there a listing at the front desk for me to review. The only way I have of knowing what is occurring is if you or one of your relatives notifies the church office or calls me directly. Physical health, spiritual health and the power of prayer go hand in hand. I frankly enjoy the pastoral side of my ministry and want to be with you!  I am never “too busy” for you. I do visit people in emergency rooms at night or any time there is a need for a visit from your priest.

Also when I am asked about a person’s health that I have visited, be aware that my response is based on what that person has told me to convey. I always ask, “What do you want me to say to people who ask about you?” Sometimes I am asked by the patient or their family to say nothing. They want to address the matter with their friends, so I must remain silent. That, too, is a part of pastoral responsibility.

Call me and I will be there as soon as possible.
You can count on it!

Fr. Ken †